Be Better In Bed
by kitkat22Venus, the planet of love sweet love, reveals much about the way we approach love, romance, sex and relationships. Its placement in our chart shows how and why we express love the way we do. Look to Mars in your chart to see just what motivates and energizes you sexually. For fun, and to help you master your partner’s sexual secrets, compare planets. It’ll go a long way towards helping you understand your relationship as well.
(How do you know where your Venus or Mars is located you ask? It’s simple. You can obtain that information through your Birth or Natal chart. All you need is the day, time and year you were born.)
Venus or Mars in Aries
These fiery rams love sex when it’s spontaneous and uninhibited. Some might say they are addicted to the thrill of the chase. Their head is their erogenous zone. And they really love it when you grab their hair and touch their face when they are making love. They can sometimes be a bit selfish as lovers and can be impatient with too much foreplay. They really like to get down to business. Their desires are powerful and can sometimes be quite aggressive. While some signs love romance, the ram is only interested in their lover’s sexual organs - plain and simple.
Venus or Mars in Taurus
These hot blooded bulls are the most physical and sensual partners. They may not be as spontaneous as their fellow ram, but you better believe that they are good at what they do. Their sexual stamina during love-making is long-lasting and steady. It’s very hard for bulls to abstain from sex, so be prepared to keep going like the energizer bunny. Don’t try to intellectualize sex with the bull because their style is natural and physically based. Do give a little extra attention to their neck and throat. This is their erogenous zone and will raise their sexual temperature.
Venus or Mars in Gemini
Talk, talk, and more talk. These twins love any type of verbal sexual expression and they love to kiss, too. To most of us, an intellectual conversation may disrupt lovemaking, but to them, it’s absolute foreplay. They are way less driven by their desires than there are by their intellect. Try to engage in some form of role-play with these twins and it will send them straight to ecstasy. And if you want to put them under your spell, kiss or touch their arms and hands. These areas are their erogenous zones, guaranteed to send shivers down their spine.
Venus or Mars in Cancer
These sensitive crabs are one of the sweetest lovers you’ll ever find, when they’re not pouting that is. They are extremely romantic and love to be touchy- feely. They are not always the most direct lovers and expect you to intuitively know what they need and desire. They are turned on by more of an aggressive lover, because they can be quite submissive. If you really want to ignite their passions quickly, gently touch or kiss their breasts. This is a Cancerian’s true erogenous zone and it will drive them wild.
Venus or Mars in Leo
These lusty lions prefer to be treated like gods and goddesses. They respond best if you make them the center of attention. It is hard for them to separate love and sex because even their most erotic sexual fantasies are infused with love and affection. They can sometimes come on too strong, and get impatient when their needs are not met soon enough, but you may appreciate their direct sexual expression and their openness in bed. If you want to sexually stimulate and excite these lions, massage or caress their back and spine. After doing this your Leo will be more than ready for love.
Venus or Mars in Virgo
Sex to this sign is a normal bodily function needed for health and general well-being. They tend to look at sex as a release of everyday stresses and tensions. Virgo is the sign of the virgin but don’t let that fool you. They really do aim to please. In fact, they’ll make a project out of you, and you will never feel quite so attended to with anyone else. If you want to hit their erogenous spot, focus on their tummies. The entire stomach area is very responsive to erotic touching, kissing, and stroking. Also try to get these Virgoans in the bath tub or shower for some fun. They really love this and of course are attracted to cleanliness.
Venus or Mars in Libra
These lovers can charm the birds out of the trees when they want to. They are quite provocative and possess a strong desire for balance and perfection in the bedroom. They are exceptionally picky when it comes to the mood and atmosphere they’re in while making love. So, get those candles ready, and break out the satin sheets, to butter up your loving Libra. Also if you want to get way more intimate with them try caressing their lower back and buttocks. After that they will be putty in your hands.
Venus or Mars in Scorpio
One sting from this Scorpion and you will be hooked. Their intensity is deep and provocative but very private. They will never kiss and tell. Sex must be intimate and personal but their fantasies never lack excitement. Mostly dominant in nature, these Scorpions prefer to express there need for control in the bedroom. So sit back and let them steer the ship. Obviously the genitals are everyone’s erogenous zone, but for them that is where their sexual energy runs deep. After teasing them in this nether region they will be yours and yours alone.
Venus or Mars in Sagittarius
These sexy Sagittarian’s are direct about their needs and desires. They view sex as if it was a sport and they love to have fun in bed. The best way to approach them is to just do it and then talk to them if you must - after the fact. They have very little patience with games of playing hard to get. They just want to get down to business. If you really want to ignite their fire, touch or caress their hips and thighs. This will surely do the trick.
Venus or Mars in Capricorn
How do you get their goat you ask? Keep it straightforward and simple. Their no frills approach to lovemaking is just fine with them. Consistency is the name of the game here, not variety. But don’t fret because their sexuality is very deep and powerful. However they are extremely private with what goes on in the bedroom. If you really want to awaken Capricorn’s slumbering passions focus on kissing, massaging, or stroking their knees. The effect of this will be volcanic.
Venus or Mars in Aquarius
These eccentric water bearers give off a vibe of being cool and confident in bed. However they do have a reputation for their lack of warmth but they are very open-minded. Aquarian’s are most turned on when you are not, as detachment can really get them hot. The idea of sex is way more exciting to them than the actual act. If you want to turn on their switch focus on their calves and ankles. Touching and kissing this part of their anatomy will arouse their sexual desires.
Venus or Mars in Pisces
These feisty fish are flirtatious, romantic, and gooey at times. They are open to all avenues of sexual expression and are willing to please. Piscean’s may come across in a subtle way and can sometimes be like a chameleon. Their lovemaking style is hard to pinpoint because they like imbalance, though their fantasies are detailed and intricate. If you want to arouse your Piscean lover aim for their feet. This will send their passions into overdrive.
